This is for you Stacey and Josh...
Sagittarius and Scorpio - Compatible or not?
You are different in many ways: very often, SAGITTARIUS feels lighthearted and enthusiastic about some idea, project, plan or dream, and feels that SCORPIO is too myopic and stubborn to appreciate optimistic plans. Also, SAGITTARIUS loves festivities and socializing while SCORPIO often feels uncomfortable with large groups of people, and prefers a deeper, more intimate involvement with just a few people rather than carousing with a large group. SCORPIO is capable of tremendous concentrated and persistent effort whereas SAGITTARIUS prefers to do a little bit of everything: traveling and developing a wide sphere of interests and activities, rather than being limited to a few activities.
Also, SCORPIO's feelings usually run much deeper than SAGITTARIUS's feelings, so SAGITTARIUS frequently fails to appreciate the depth of feeling that SCORPIO experiences. SCORPIO becomes very attached, emotionally, to a love partner and doesn't easily share SAGITTARIUS's attention and affection with anyone else. SAGITTARIUS, on the other hand, is something of a flirt and may innocently arouse intense jealousy in SCORPIO. SAGITTARIUS can be weighted down by SCORPIO's suspiciousness, demands for loyalty and wholehearted involvement. Worse, SAGITTARIUS may simply ignore SCORPIO's needs and not realize how strongly SCORPIO feels.
SAGITTARIUS has a much greater need for freedom. The two of you are so different that it will take a lot of compassion and understanding for you to be together for any length of time.