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    surprise, or no surprise??

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    Just want some fellow stacker feedback on what would be best!! My gf and I are nearing that special moment in our relationship!! Would it be better to take the my lady to pick the ring out, or surprise her with a hand picked ring??? Advice????

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    surprise her....rose petals all through the house, with "your song" playing....order out from the place you ate at on your first date. Light candles and when she walks in....get on one knee......Thats the way to do it
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    Have the two of you ever talked about it at all? If you have, you could just slip the thought into conversation. Or casually flip thru a diamond site with her. "What kind of cut do you like?"

    Or as you're out together, notice other women's rings and comment on them to her. She'll comment back and let you know what she likes. You'll also get points for taking interest in it.

    Nothing wrong with surprising her out of the blue, but if its a cut she doesn't really like she'll wear it and never tell you. May as well get her something she enjoys.
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    ~via BB (wap.pinstack.com)~ surprise. Otherwise it makes her very spoiled.

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    Surprise her!! It's so much more special if she doesn't know!

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    I know the cut, and the style, which is the antique. Its like half and half in this thread! I am leaning towards surprise! ~via BB (wap.pinstack.com)~

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    Surprise is always the answer when it comes to women. If she has to always take the lead or answer the questions she looks at you differently. Show inituitive and surprise the hell out of her seeing as you know what she wants. So the real questions is coming up with a unique way to do it...


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    I wish my gf wanted to be surprised. She doesn't trust my judgement but we've been planning to upgrade our package but can't afford it yet. My advice, if it's something she already knows is coming just go to the mall and act like you're window shopping at other stores... then when you walk by Kay's or Robin's Bros, whichever one's in the mall, stop... look through the window, then tell her "Let's look around." Watch very carefully her reaction to everything she looks at. If you don't see a change in body language ask her "If you had to pick the perfect one, which one would it be?" Once she see's something she MUST have [and it's within budget ] tell the salesperson "I'll take this one" and while she's still in shock get down on one knee and do your thing! She picked the ring and it's still a surprise.

    If you guys haven't really talked too much about it, even better, go find a ring and engrave something romantic on the inside. Next take her to a restaurant (nothing ghetto now!) and make sure the manager hold's onto the ring. After dinner have the manager bring the ring inside it's box, out on a desert dish, hidden behind a piece of cake or pie, with a candle sticking out. She'll think you told the people it was her birthday to get free desert, but have them set it down with the box facing her. Once she notices, make your move!!!

    Believe me the best surprise is the one they don't see coming. If you imbelish on a lot of romance she'll think something's up, you're cover will be blown long before you take the ring out of your pocket! When it's unexpected then it's REALLY a surprise!
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    Definately surprise her! This is something she will remember for the rest of her life, make it beautiful and special. My story: getting ready for bed one night and my bf at the time says, "u like get married?", he didnt have a ring or anything, he just asked...it was weird and thats the memory im stuck with forever!!! lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by LaTuFu View Post
    Have the two of you ever talked about it at all? If you have, you could just slip the thought into conversation. Or casually flip thru a diamond site with her. "What kind of cut do you like?"

    Or as you're out together, notice other women's rings and comment on them to her. She'll comment back and let you know what she likes. You'll also get points for taking interest in it.

    Nothing wrong with surprising her out of the blue, but if its a cut she doesn't really like she'll wear it and never tell you. May as well get her something she enjoys.
    i agree with this.. but def. surprise her, it'll make it more "special"
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    Quote Originally Posted by moses2628 View Post
    I know the cut, and the style, which is the antique. Its like half and half in this thread! I am leaning towards surprise! ~via BB (wap.pinstack.com)~
    If you know what she wants, then surprise her all the way!
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    Surprise her.
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