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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    haha me too....
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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    You could try giving her phone a nice, well-deserved soak...

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    Heres the tricky part...
    What if she's a member of Pinstack and sees this thread?

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    accidentally break the phone, or steal her SIM card

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    I am sad to hear this...

    my suggestion ...when and if she is never around her phone.... go to set up blue tooth>options>discoverable>address book transfer/all entries>led connect indicator/off. then you can transfer her entire address book to your phone and she wont know the difference except the blue tooth symbol that most people dont see.

    ( btw... no i know my wife isnt cheating on me... becaue of this...lol)

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    Sometimes it takes this to find out exactly what is wrong in a relationship. Wife and I went through something very similar and after $10k in lawyers and court costs and going behind her lawyer's backs (yes, stupid thing to do when you are paying them and they are working for you) and talking to each other. We both realized what kind of blinders we had placed on each other and ourselves and have been working through them all.

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    First of all, I'm sorry that you or anyone has to wonder about something like this. If you want to go very low tech, just ask her. There is a saying, "The mouth may lie, but the body never does".

    A person who is telling you a lie knows what they're saying isn't true, and they expect that you won't believe them. They have great difficulty making and keeping eye contact, feeling you can see right through them.

    A person who is telling the truth will generally just state what they know to be facts, even if it is only from their personal perspective. A person who is lying often feels the need to support their lies with details, as if to convince you. If standing or sitting, they may cross their arms, if sitting they may cross their legs, or lean back away from you. These are protective and withdrawing gesture. A person telling the truth won't do this, they're being open and honest with you, and don't feel inside themselves they have anything to hide from you, or any reason to pull away from you.

    Take a good look at any facial expressions; a person's first expression is the real one. Once they've had time to regain their composure somewhat, they can easily fake what they want you to see.

    In a calm manner, you can ask detailed questions, and especially watch a person's eyes and their movement.

    For a right handed person, looking up and to their left indicates they are remembering mental images; eyes straight to their left is they're "listening to a sound in their memory".

    Looking up and to their right means they are creating images in their mind's eye; looking straight to their right means they are imagining a sound or noise or dialog. Reverse they for a left handed person.

    The key to reading someone's facial expressions and body language is to be calm emotionally. If you're so upset you're thinking about what you say or ask next, you'll miss what their body language is telling you. Be truthful about what you are thinking and feeling. A person in a relationship that is being unfaithful has not been considering the feelings of their mate; when confronted with them in a non-threatening way, it will have an emotional effect on them. It makes them take a step back, so to say.
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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    Man I feel for you. The worst part is she might be using a BB to do. BBs shouldnt be used in that manor. ma077146 you have given some very good advice. On a side note remind me to to anger any ladies on in the stacks. But then again maybe the anwser is to date someone on the stacks as long as you are both faithful.
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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    Leave your phone at work or in your car! then ask to use her phone when she is just getting home or something! If she is stubborn about letting you use! give her crap and jokingly say what are you hidding from me! get her to think that maybe she forgot to delete stuff (get her worried) most of the time they wont let you us the phone and they will make up a lame excuse. Then what mao77146 said could help with the rest!

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    Quote Originally Posted by j llama View Post
    Heres the tricky part...
    What if she's a member of Pinstack and sees this thread?

    Uh OH
    I was thinking the exact same thing, lol

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    ^^if that's the case, then be straight forward and ask the wife if anything is going on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by curve247 View Post
    Man I feel for you. The worst part is she might be using a BB to do. BBs shouldnt be used in that manor. ma077146 you have given some very good advice. On a side note remind me to to anger any ladies on in the stacks. But then again maybe the anwser is to date someone on the stacks as long as you are both faithful.
    It's also important to remember that bi-network relationships seldom work out!

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    Hmm, I 2nd copying the address book method.

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    if you have att you could check the bill, cause all incomming and out going calls are printed in the bill....check the numbers....go to a att store with your bill and see if they can tell you who the number belongs to.....good luck
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