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    Please help wife is cheating

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    Okay I know this is crazy.....
    I beleive my wife is having an affair and I pretty much know she is pinning to her "other" and then deleting all of the logs and calls.

    does anyone know of a way to either retreive deleted call logs or install a program that would keep hidden backups for me to view... or even a VNC server that could go on the blackberry so I can "VIEW" it.

    okay call me paranoid or crazy, but bottom line is this is destroying my life and I need proof!!!!

    Please help

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    OMG! Been there and had the hardest time proving it. Your best bet is a surprise. Or a private detective. I feel for you man, I believe everyone has had someone cheat. And the usual case is, once they do it, they always do it. I just hope you don't have kids involved.~via BB (wap.pinstack.com)~

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    I saw the post and just say I'm sorry to hear your story.

    I don't think the PIN messages get stored anywhere but on the phone but I'll let a more experienced person confirm that.

    Good luck.

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    From what I have been reading, unless you are on BES, they are pretty secure and can not be gotten too if the logs are deleted. I know its hard, but if there is physical relationship there are probably lot easier ways to catch her. I don't know, steal her phone on the way to work. Maybe you will get the messages meant for her.

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    if you are sharing a plan, you can always check the call logs by accessing the bill online or get a detailed bill in the mail. it will show every in and out going call made

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    Quote Originally Posted by guyheavensent View Post
    if you are sharing a plan, you can always check the call logs by accessing the bill online or get a detailed bill in the mail. it will show every in and out going call made
    That will show calls but not Pin messages. Unless they are on a BES, there may not be much you can do. Now the BES situation applies on both sides, if the recieving party is on a BES, you may be able to get a lawyer to be able to get the pin records through a court order.

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    Maybe someone on here could try pinning her and see how she responds?
    Kind of like baiting a trap and see if she takes it

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    Quote Originally Posted by TackleBerry View Post
    Maybe someone on here could try pinning her and see how she responds?
    Kind of like baiting a trap and see if she takes it
    A pinstack theme, huh. It would be hard I think, you would need a lot of info to make it work, cause maybe she is not into random encounters. I would also check and see if she has a my space account and messengers that she uses on the pc.
    I used this program to bust my exwife, and kept the divorce on my terms
    http://www.topsecretsoftware.com/golden-eye.html

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    That's freaking ridiculous. I hope the ***** freaking gets what she deserves. I can't STAND people like this. Freakin trash.

    I'm sorry you have to have such a loser in your life. I hope things work out and you are the victor.

    It's not even worth your time if you know she's doing it. Just tell her you know and kick her out.
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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    Quote Originally Posted by TackleBerry View Post
    Maybe someone on here could try pinning her and see how she responds?
    Kind of like baiting a trap and see if she takes it
    Wouldn't work. Even if she responded and admitted anything, its not like you can use the info in any meaningful way.

    To the OP: That sucks that you're dealing with this possibility. PIN messages can't be tracked in any way that I am aware of, unles she is on a BES and you can somehow convince the IT dept to violate HR policies to spy on her. Again, would have a hard time using that info in any way.

    Your best bet is to confront her in a calm manner, let her know how you feel and what you suspect, and that you want to talk about it and try to figure out what to do. If she has any feelings left for your relationship, she'll confess. If she doesn't, then you have a couple of decisions: Enter counseling together to try to repair things, or hire a Private Detective to prove or disprove your allegations and begin ending things. Or third, do what Brooke suggested and toss her to the curb and get a'movin'.
    Last edited by LaTuFu; 11-14-2007 at 03:37 PM. Reason: Brooke has a point!
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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    Another idea is, if she is using email from your home PC, you could use a hardware keylogger. Then check the emails sent and recieved and any IM messages.

    http://www.keyghost.com/

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    ^ I second keyloggers
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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    Or install something like RealVNC if she uses home computer and connect to it in stealth.

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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    Quote Originally Posted by brooke03 View Post
    ^ I second keyloggers
    Remind me not to make you angry...
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    Re: Please help wife is cheating

    Quote Originally Posted by LaTuFu View Post
    Remind me not to make you angry...

    way past that point yo
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