Page 3 of 4 FirstFirst 1234 LastLast
Results 31 to 45 of 47

~via BB (wap.pinstack.com)~Good Luck in your future. Things will get better they always do. Take ... Stackers' Lounge forum

  1. #31
    PDUB204's Avatar
    PDUB204 no está en línea Stack level 4
    Join Date
    Apr 2007
    PIN/ID
    31096895
    Posts
    562

    Re: Love hurts......(please give me your feedback)

    Advertisement



    ~via BB (wap.pinstack.com)~Good Luck in your future. Things will get better they always do. Take this thought with you- when I don't want to go to work (for whatever reason) I tell myself this may be the night I help someone- while you have had problems you have taken a step and made a change for the better and your thread may have given someone the courage to do the same or reading what was posted may have helped some through a hard time . I say Thank You on behalf of everyone here

  2. #32
    rdills's Avatar
    rdills no está en línea Stack Professional
    Join Date
    Mar 2007
    PIN/ID
    Huh?
    Posts
    1,255

    Re: Love hurts......(please give me your feedback)

    ~via BB (wap.pinstack.com)~
    Have some pride! I don't know where you're from but where I am its so many women! You shouldn't even have time to worry about what she's doing. At 27, you should be focused on self improvement and not some little girl playing tricks with your head! Get that career on the right track, have plenty of fun too! That's the most important things right now. You got too many emotions man! That's for them. This may sound mean to some, but there's no room for weakness here! CAREER first! WEALTH first! FUN second and a wife last!

  3. #33
    TanBucsFan's Avatar
    TanBucsFan no está en línea Stack level 7
    Join Date
    Feb 2007
    PIN/ID
    Ask me!
    Posts
    3,033

    Re: Love hurts......(please give me your feedback)

    So what ended up happening with this?

  4. #34
    TanBucsFan's Avatar
    TanBucsFan no está en línea Stack level 7
    Join Date
    Feb 2007
    PIN/ID
    Ask me!
    Posts
    3,033

    Re: Love hurts......(please give me your feedback)

    Quote Originally Posted by rdills
    ~via BB (wap.pinstack.com)~
    Have some pride! I don't know where you're from but where I am its so many women! You shouldn't even have time to worry about what she's doing. At 27, you should be focused on self improvement and not some little girl playing tricks with your head! Get that career on the right track, have plenty of fun too! That's the most important things right now. You got too many emotions man! That's for them. This may sound mean to some, but there's no room for weakness here! CAREER first! WEALTH first! FUN second and a wife last!
    Men who choose that path usually wind up alone (and with the ex-wife getting half their hard earned money).

    Money cannot buy you companionship when you're 65 and you have no wife and no kids because the only thing you were worried about was how much money you could make. It can buy you a few escorts and some women who give not one rats behind about you...but it will never buy you true love.

  5. #35
    kentrg's Avatar
    kentrg no está en línea BES Pro
    Join Date
    Apr 2007
    PIN/ID
    246FBBBA
    Posts
    1,076

    Re: Love hurts......(please give me your feedback)

    ~via BB (wap.pinstack.com)

    You need a balance. You'll have many girlfriends throughtout life and one career that you need to continue to invest in to live comfortably.

  6. #36
    braveandcrazy's Avatar
    braveandcrazy no está en línea Stack level 3
    Join Date
    Jul 2007
    Posts
    366

    Re: Love hurts......(please give me your feedback)

    And now the old married guy weighs in.

    You need to ask yourself 2 questions:

    1) Can I live without her? The obvious answer should be yes. If she left today, you would still breathe, your heart would still beat, the world would keep turning.

    2) Do iI want to? This is the important one, because your answer will determine where you go from here. If the answer is yes, then move on. But if the answer is no, you have to give it every chance to succeed, even if it is her way. And NO, maybe is not an answer to this question
    Last edited by braveandcrazy; 08-28-2007 at 02:35 PM.

  7. #37
    StaceyRVC's Avatar
    StaceyRVC no está en línea Community pro
    Join Date
    Jun 2006
    PIN/ID
    Ask Me!
    Posts
    9,321

    Re: Love hurts......(please give me your feedback)

    Quote Originally Posted by Clouseau21
    And now the old married guy weighs in.

    You need to ask yourself 2 questions:

    1) Can I live without her? The obvious answer should be yes. If she left today, you would still breathe, your heart would still beat, the world would keep turning.

    2) Do iI want to? This is the important one, because your answer will determine where you go from here. If the answer is yes, then move on. But if the answer is no, you have to give it every chance to succeed, even if it is her way. And NO, maybe is not an answer to this question
    Very well said!

  8. #38
    rdills's Avatar
    rdills no está en línea Stack Professional
    Join Date
    Mar 2007
    PIN/ID
    Huh?
    Posts
    1,255
    Quote Originally Posted by TanBucsFan
    Men who choose that path usually wind up alone (and with the ex-wife getting half their hard earned money).

    Money cannot buy you companionship when you're 65 and you have no wife and no kids because the only thing you were worried about was how much money you could make. It can buy you a few escorts and some women who give not one rats behind about you...but it will never buy you true love.
    I never said it will buy you love. You're putting words in my comment TBF. As much as we like to think the world is beautiful and full of love, reality sets in when the gas bill rolls around! Then you realize, I can't live off of love! I was honest with the young man instead of the sugar coating he's been receiving. Self improvement is first! And when you reach the highest level you can, then focus on things like kids and a wife! The CLASS of women in your circle will be on your level. You'll be older, wiser, and financially secure! And so will they! House, kids, cars, living, all takes a lot of income. Think about it and do it right.

  9. #39
    TanBucsFan's Avatar
    TanBucsFan no está en línea Stack level 7
    Join Date
    Feb 2007
    PIN/ID
    Ask me!
    Posts
    3,033

    Re: Love hurts......(please give me your feedback)

    Quote Originally Posted by rdills
    I never said it will buy you love. You're putting words in my comment TBF. As much as we like to think the world is beautiful and full of love, reality sets in when the gas bill rolls around! Then you realize, I can't live off of love! I was honest with the young man instead of the sugar coating he's been receiving. Self improvement is first! And when you reach the highest level you can, then focus on things like kids and a wife! The CLASS of women in your circle will be on your level. You'll be older, wiser, and financially secure! And so will they! House, kids, cars, living, all takes a lot of income. Think about it and do it right.
    I never stated you "said" money can't buy you love. But your advice to him will leave a man alone and when men are rich and lonely it's their money that usually attracts the women, not who they really are inside...hence that's where "money can't buy you love" comes into play.

    [FONT=Verdana]This may sound mean to some, but there's no room for weakness here! CAREER first! WEALTH first! FUN second and a wife last![/FONT][FONT=Arial][/FONT]


    If a man chooses to get married, he has made the choice that his family comes first; in you post you said the wife comes last. Well then don't get married if you're going to put career before family, simple as that. Instead of telling someone to do something that will probably wind up ruining their marriage, (not to mention if the man has kids) I'd of said don't get married until you are where you want to be career wise.

    No matter how you summarize what you said, you still told the guy to put family last when in a marriage and that to me is the worst advice to give someone. If you want a prosperous career first, then wait to get married, don't get married and then ignore your obligation; that's just another factor in why our divorce rate in America is so high.

  10. #40
    rdills's Avatar
    rdills no está en línea Stack Professional
    Join Date
    Mar 2007
    PIN/ID
    Huh?
    Posts
    1,255
    Quote Originally Posted by TanBucsFan
    I never stated you "said" money can't buy you love. But your advice to him will leave a man alone and when men are rich and lonely it's their money that usually attracts the women, not who they really are inside...hence that's where "money can't buy you love" comes into play.



    If a man chooses to get married, he has made the choice that his family comes first; in you post you said the wife comes last. Well then don't get married if you're going to put career before family, simple as that. Instead of telling someone to do something that will probably wind up ruining their marriage, (not to mention if the man has kids) I'd of said don't get married until you are where you want to be career wise.

    No matter how you summarize what you said, you still told the guy to put family last when in a marriage and that to me is the worst advice to give someone. If you want a prosperous career first, then wait to get married, don't get married and then ignore your obligation; that's just another factor in why our divorce rate in America is so high.
    The #1 reason for divorce is money problems! At 27 career should be first. Unless you're already stable at that point. 2 unstable people makes for an unstable marriage! He doesn't have kids yet so what are you talking about I told him to put them last? Did you see the part where he was sleeping the car? But noooo, he's supposed to be focused on some girl please! This isn't rocket science. My advice is/was right on! There's too many women in the world for him to be all broke up over 1. I'm 33 and I'm very happy. My house'my car, my money, and plenty of female friends to pick and chose from when I'm ready. And guess what, I've never had to pay for an escourt that's just ridiculous! Most Women get angry when a man's world don't revolve around them! That's your whole problem with my comments. I'm done! Not about to continue this when I know I'm right I'm living it!

  11. #41
    TanBucsFan's Avatar
    TanBucsFan no está en línea Stack level 7
    Join Date
    Feb 2007
    PIN/ID
    Ask me!
    Posts
    3,033

    Re: Love hurts......(please give me your feedback)

    ~via BB (wap.pinstack.com)~

    Lmao omg you are totally hopeless man, and the reading comprehension skills...well I'll just leave this one alone, I'd be better off trying to have this conversation with my 5 year old. Lol

  12. #42
    LaTuFu's Avatar
    LaTuFu no está en línea Stack level 9
    Join Date
    Apr 2007
    PIN/ID
    Just Ax
    Posts
    7,861

    Re: Love hurts......(please give me your feedback)

    Except that if you're 30ish and single (i.e. never been married) it throws a huge red flag up to any potential m(d)ates. Usually if you're 30ish and still single, there is a reason for it. (and that's what your date will be thinking in the back of their mind). I saw a few red flags waving in the last few posts, and I don't even wanna ask ya out.

    I suggest a couple of your favorite drinks, and listen to Lynyrd Skynyrd's "Searchin' " until the lyrics sink in.
    If I knew where I was going, I might already be there. -- Cross Canadian Ragweed.

  13. #43
    j llama's Avatar
    j llama no está en línea Device Pro
    Join Date
    Sep 2006
    PIN/ID
    4U2ASKME
    Posts
    4,319

    Re: Love hurts......(please give me your feedback)

    *******************breaking news flash*************************
    I sign a lease for my own apt in the morning. Key words "my own apt."
    I broke up with her almost a week ago.
    Life goes on.

    -and now back to your regularly scheduled programming...
    BlackBerry® Certified Support Specialist

  14. #44
    TanBucsFan's Avatar
    TanBucsFan no está en línea Stack level 7
    Join Date
    Feb 2007
    PIN/ID
    Ask me!
    Posts
    3,033

    Re: Love hurts......(please give me your feedback)

    ~via BB (wap.pinstack.com)~

    Well best of luck to you in your new apt and your new life!

  15. #45
    j llama's Avatar
    j llama no está en línea Device Pro
    Join Date
    Sep 2006
    PIN/ID
    4U2ASKME
    Posts
    4,319

    Re: Love hurts......(please give me your feedback)

    thanks, couldn't have done it without the help of my fellow stackers
    BlackBerry® Certified Support Specialist

Page 3 of 4 FirstFirst 1234 LastLast

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •