Re: I just find it generally wrong
Without agreeing or disagreeing with your post, the Mods are all human and just as prone to mistakes as we are. Having said that, yes, they are expected to hold themselves to a higher standard of behavior.
If you feel strongly that a member of the Mod staff has treated you inappropriately or violated forum rules in any way, I strongly urge you to send a PM to Hayden and/or any other Mod (not including the one involved). Explain your situation, link to the thread involved if at all possible, and calmly and professionally lay out your case.
Posting publicly in the forums, even here, to "air the dirty laundry" only gives the staff grounds to say you violated forum rules.
Be professional, polite, and persistent, and I think you'll receive a fair hearing from the staff. Thats been my experience, anyway.
Hope that helps.
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