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A month? I don't know where you live my friend but in Miami, you should have sealed the deal by the 1 month mark. If she doesn't even want a kiss by now, she's not into you man. Sorry to break it to you. Girls don't hold out like that for a kiss anymore. We're not in the 1930's.
Make a move. Females like a guy with confidence. Buy her a dozen red roses (red roses signify love which will show her what your about), take her out to a nice dinner where you can talk and then take her for a walk somewhere. Again, I don't know where you live but down here the beach works wonders. While your walking, set it up right, and kiss her. If she's real into it, drop her down to the sand and handle yours. Trust me man, cockiness and confidence go a lot farther then "waiting for the right time". And definitely don't come on a Blackberry forum and ask for advice on a female.
For those who are gonna comment, yes I am young but I'm not a little boy. I'm 24. I do know what I'm talking about.
Last edited by Stugatzz; 05-20-2008 at 04:52 PM.
I disagree about the confidince and cockiness going hand and hand. Nobody likes anyone who's into themselves, men or women! Don't be cocky, but confidence is a huge roll! As far as spending a month with her, I agree with you that the kiss should've happened hella long ago!
Originally Posted by Stugatzz
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You and I need to talk......lol gladiators pffft
Originally Posted by pda.teck
This has gone to be a really long thread. lol.
I think some of you dont know the difference between "the girl you take home top mom" and the girl who sleeps with a new guy every two weeks ;-).
Originally Posted by tippmann15
It has gone on to be a really long thread but I'll add my two cents...
I think tippmann is right, what type of girl are you hoping to date? Do you want the quick fling (hope you have money to buy endless amounts of medication to cure whatever you get with these kinds of men/women) or do you want the type you can take home to mom & dad.
I'm dating a girl now, going on 11 months, and it was right at a month before we kissed. It was the 4th date and it was after we went to a very nice location and a nice walk and then dinner. We are now planning our wedding and she is by far the most fabulous woman I have ever met. (See my blog for more)
Some people like to take relationships slow because they've been hurt or they don't want to put any "expectations" out there that "I am going to sleep with you in the first week", etc.
Good luck and I hope y'all have a long-lasting relationship.
To some degree if like this it's in Social Networking...
Originally Posted by audreypearl
But we prefer BB topics otherwise.
This is so sweet!
Straight up... when you're ready Troy...go for it. If you feel pressured, or the "need", then don't do it. You'll know the time is right when you make the move. Don't be afraid, I doubt she'll bite...yet ;-).
As for cockiness/confidence, they're separate. Nothin' wrong with being confident, but cocky - guy or gurl, isn't a turn on. Besides, why do they need a significant other when they already love themselves so much?
Regardless, if you want a lady to date, take your time, what's the rush? But if you want a gurl you have to sneak into the house (to avoid mom..*wink wink*) then make a move off the bat, the only way to hit one out of the park is to take a swing.
Hope it all works out for you Troy - it'll all come with time my man.
Best of Luck!
Come on! This thread was posted a long time ago! He's probably WWAAAYYY PAST kissing by now... lol!
The Day Before You Wrote This Poste!
NOTHING IS TO DIFFICULT AND NOT TRYING IS THE ONLY FAILURE!
Never ever buy a woman flowers. She won't respect you. Woman want a man they have to chase to get and keep. Once the chase is over, they get bored with you. My wife had a boyfriend who constantly bought her flowers. She kicked him to the curb and married me. Go to askmen.com and check out the program from Doc Love.
lol - women don't always appreciate it when you "finish first"... Bahahahahahahah
Originally Posted by jasonroth
Just joking around.
In all seriousness go to www.seductionbase.com
I would love to be with a guy who is interested in me but also who wants to be in a committed relationship. In my last relationship, I fell too hard too fast (within weeks after meeting him online) before I found out what the guy was really like. We did have a good relationship but it fell apart in the end because he would not listen to what I wanted or needed and he started doing things on our family plan bill and I was the one who ended up paying for it all.
Originally Posted by Justyn
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