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    Just an Update for all of those who gave me an encouraging word.

    About four months ago my son started playing cub league baseball.
    At the time, I was still married but it was defiantly on its way out.
    At his first practice, I needed to call my wife. I had accidentally left both of my cell phones at home. I walked up to a group of mothers and asked if I could borrow a phone. One mother turned around and handed me her phone. When she turned and looked at me, it was like time stopped for a second. That had only happened one other time in my life and I ended up being married to her for 15 years. Although it hit me what had just happened, I was still married so blew it off. We had only been married for six months but been together for two years.

    I was the only single father in the group and ended sitting with the moms during the games and practices. I know it was wrong of me but I always enjoyed talking to the mom that handed me the phone that first day of practice. I always looked for her and whenever we talked, it would be like I had a small volt of electricity going through me.

    Things finally got to the point that I had to leave my wife. My children from my first marriage were miserable due to how she was treating them.
    I made sure that this particular mom knew I had left my wife and was divorcing. A few weeks later I reactivated a profile I had from three years ago on Yahoo personals. I received a message on it that only said ‘Baseball dad?”My daughter also plays fast pitch softball and my soon to be ex-wife had sons that played baseball so who ever had sent this to me could have been from any of these teams.
    I answered her response but she didn’t tell me who she was. It hit me one day, what if this was the mom that I like so much? Every game and practice I would talk to her and sometimes I would think she is interested and sometimes not. I wanted to ask her out but if she said no, it would make the rest of the season a little uncomfortable. The night before the second to last game, I received another e-mail from her. Going to tomorrow’s game it said. Then it hit me that her first name was in the profile. So I looked at it again and her name was Karen. The next day I got to the game early and as soon as the mom’s got there I asked them what was her name…..Karen, they said. I felt like a child at Christmas day that just saw his new bike under the tree!So about half way through the game, I leaned over and smiled and said, yes, I am going to the game. She grinned and said, I knew you would figure it out soon.Because there were so many people around, I handed her my e-mail address and asked her to send me her number. She did and we talked. She was seeing someone but was about to end it. She said if I wanted to go out as friends in the mean time that would be nice. We went out for dinner two days later and we haven’t been apart since. She is everything I have always wanted and it is like god made us, just for each other. So just when I thought it would never be for me, it happened!!
    Again, everyone that gave me encouraging words.

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    Great!! you gotta love a happy ending !

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    Sorry to hear of it...but don't lose hope. I've been single now for almost six years and
    am really OK with it. Have tried the online dating sites but they really aren't for me. I
    think I've come to prefer being single. It's tough though when you have just come out of
    something and become used to being with someone like yourself.
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    Re: Forty-four and Single again

    florida,
    my pop just got divorced for the third time and is in his 40's as well. he is now dating a lady that seems to be sweet. good luck!

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    Re: Forty-four and Single again

    nevermind, just reaad your update! good for you!

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    Oh this is so sweet...best of luck to you.

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    Re: Forty-four and Single again

    wait, he's been married for a while, isn't that like being a virgin>?< lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Bulz_Eye_
    wait, he's been married for a while, isn't that like being a virgin>?< lol
    Hahaha!! Lol

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    Re: Forty-four and Single again

    That sounds fantastic man! I hope that everything works out!

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