Since you said you were new to the world of blackberry, I would suggest just spending some quality time with it. (just like the wife and kids). It will take a little time getting used to how the phone functions and being able to access basic features of the phone. I wouldn't get bogged down with "tweaking" the device just yet. There will be plenty of time for that latter!!!

(oh yeah, remember to go to sleep at night and wake up in the morning. Time disappears in the immediate radius of a blackberry!!)