Well, if you go to Device A forum saying you don't like it and will switch to Device B it's no wonder you don't get friendly responses. Try that doing the reverse and you will see the same or worse reception. In any case, most responses weren't hostile.
In the end it's a matter of preference and needs. I do want a business oriented OS that is open for developers. Not something with some features closed to the builder alone. No multitasking or no copy/paste are basic things for my needs and I don't care about browsing or games so much. I use card games, any phone will do them well. I browse once in a while because of being bored but the heavy browser usage is done over my desktop with a big screen and a heavily tailored Firefox. I won't get that on any phone device.
I got too used to many nice features from my BB that I doubt I will ever switch. Even the bold has things I don't want/like. And I agree 100% with the screen maintenance issue. That's why I would never use a phone without a full keyboard. I already clean a lot my screen... I wouldn't stand a full screen with all my fingers on it.