If you are not able to get into your device like I suggested then javaloader is a solution. If you are not comfortable in DOS then try this, which also is a solution.
Pull the battery out of your device.
With the battery out connect the device to the computer.
Go to Options and select "connection settings"
Select USB PIN this may take a few moments since there is no battery in the device. you might even have to select detect device in some rare cases.
Select the application loader icon.
Select all software you want installed.
Proceed to the end portion untill you see the "Finish" button.
Very IMPORTANT. do not hit the finish button, instead select the ADVANCED button.
Make sure both boxes are checked.
Proceed until it asks you if you want to automatically back up and restore. Select DO NOT AUTOMATICALLY BACK UP MY HANDHELD.
Once the process starts. take care not to bump out the cord and re-insert the battery. Again on some rare occasions you might have to wait until it finishes saying connect to insert the battery.
Im very sorry this is happening to you, good luck. PS, thanks all that are helping QWKSOL.